No one has spotted Eva Mendes And Ryan Gosling's baby in public. The actress apparently wants to keep it that way, according to reports. However, her military parenting style appears to be exaggerated and is said to be bordering on ridiculous.

Visitors coming to the couple's home must reportedly be careful and watch out before playing with Eva and Ryan's baby. The 41-year-old actress will allegedly not be happy seeing someone around her little Esmeralda, especially if that person hasn't washed his or her hands.

"At her first birthday party, no one was allowed to bring in a camera and all photos of Esme were banned," the insider told OK! Magazine. "They had a professional photographer there and that was it."

The site went to add that Eva has remained strict when it comes to her and Ryan's baby that no one could enter their home with shoes on. In the past, she reportedly asked everybody to take off their shoes at the doorstep before coming into their home to make sure the germs are not carried inside. Another source added that Eva is like a "helicopter mom." She never leaves her baby out of her sight.

Meanwhile, if the "Hitch" actress is overprotective of Esme, her doting partner is equally caring for their daughter. In an interview with Today Show, the new mother dished how her beau participates in raising their baby, E! News reports. When asked if Ryan helps in changing their daughter's diaper, she confirmed that he does.

"That's a given these days; I don't think that's a plus anymore. It better not be, fathers out there," Mendes said.

After celebrating the first birthday of their baby, the couple is still being haunted by split rumors. According to some reports, the two were fighting over Ryan's closeness with his co-star, Emma Stone. She has also reportedly been controlling ever since and now it's taking a toll on their relationship.

Eva also reportedly had seen a lawyer to get full custody of Esmeralda. She has apparently decided to see how it's like to live as a single mother. However, the split reports remain unconfirmed.